Five Instincts of Women for a Better Relationship
Since he was falling in love with you, you’ve been doing these things instinctively. Maybe you’re aware or maybe you are not. Sometimes, since we’re already secured, it has slowly gotten out of the habit. Spice it up again and remember how to: |
 | 1. Speak softly with clear and concise language. Instead of whining, complaining and rising your voice…stop and collect yourself and then think of what to say. If it may work better for you, write down what you need to communicate and talk about it.
Benefit: You will get his attention, his cooperation, and his respect.
It works because: Men need clear, concise, unemotional language to be able to hear you. Otherwise, they shut it out completely. And we all know how good they can be at doing that.
|  | 2. Let him know how he makes you happy REGULARLY. There’s a magic on “happy” word. It is 100% important for your man to know that you are happy. Using the happy word to make requests and to praise work amazingly.
Benefit: He’ll start looking for more ways to make you happy.
It works because: If you’re not happy he feels like a failure and men hate to fail.
|  | 3. Appreciate him often Men love to hear that you like his masculine qualities and hearing that you are proud of those things he likes about him will make them feel even loved. The masculine virtues that men value the most are strength, sexual power, courage, being successful, making money, being a protector, and being a good father.
Benefit : He’ll fall in love each time you do it and he’ll make him feel like a hero. (DON’T FORGET: “A man wants to be with a woman who makes him feel like a man.”)
It works because : Men compete with other men and need to measure up. You can validate his worth as a man. |  | 4. Give him romantic kisses instead of pecks. Long hello kisses tell him you’re glad to see him, long good-bye kisses tell him you can’t wait until he returns, long thank-you kisses tell him you really appreciate what he did for you, and “hey you, kiss me” kisses tell him you want him.
Benefit : He’ll feel more connected to you and look forward to being with you.
It works because : Physical connection is the only way most men know how to be intimate and you’re the only one with whom it’s okay to be intimate. |  | 5. Flirt with him. Be playful, tease him, say slightly naughty things once in a while, and gaze into his eyes with a “come here, naughty boy” twinkle.
Benefit : You’ll both feel younger, friskier, and more in love.
It works because : Flirting is fun and we can all use more fun. |
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